What is keep it real? Men and woman can be friends! Most Def. Just becasue you are of opposite genders does not mean that you have more than social interest in the other person.
So your saying that due to your own belief that you are too attractive it impossible for you to have female friends. It it is you thing or are you so attractive to you that you are fearful.
What I meant by keeping it real is,not holding your feelings back if you are interested in someone,instead of letting that person get married or trying to sabatoge that person's relationship
I agree with your comment on keeping it real. You have to be honest about your feelings and your intentions. It is important for you to not hide your feelings or get caught up into feelings that other people want to put on you. Honesty is rewarded with honesty. But what about when you are confronted with someone with a hidden agenda?
My first thought was "Yeah, if they already slept together. Lol." but seriously, I agree with the above comment. As long as two people are honest with their intentions I can not see why a man and a woman couldn't be friends. Infact,Im sure there are women who'd prefer it to same sex friendships.
Being friends with the opposite is far more difficult if you've already done the deed. Unless you are going for the long haul, its difficult to make it work. Haven't you ever slept with someone at work? How ackward is that, you know?
Some people prefer the opposite as a friend,and they are some that been able to make it work. All by being honest,thats why it shouldn't be ackward if you were be honest from the begining.
for some people,but for myself i can not be friend with no woman because if that woman is beautiful and it seems like nothing's really missing if i feel her something will happen.
It is my preference to have male friends versus female friends. Of course I make sure that up front that the understanding is we are friends, if something seems to be brewing if I rathere be just friends with the guy then it is what it is. however, I have had one friendship with a male become a friends with benefits situation... sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt. In the end we remained friends.
What is keep it real? Men and woman can be friends! Most Def. Just becasue you are of opposite genders does not mean that you have more than social interest in the other person.
ReplyDeleteIs real - Honesty, Truth or what???
Good question.. in my world no..I am to attractive to women and cannot have a friendship with them.
ReplyDeleteSo your saying that due to your own belief that you are too attractive it impossible for you to have female friends. It it is you thing or are you so attractive to you that you are fearful.
ReplyDeleteWhat I meant by keeping it real is,not holding your feelings back if you are interested in someone,instead of letting that person get married or trying to sabatoge that person's relationship
ReplyDeleteWhat about the unattractive ladys in your world
ReplyDeleteI agree with your comment on keeping it real. You have to be honest about your feelings and your intentions. It is important for you to not hide your feelings or get caught up into feelings that other people want to put on you. Honesty is rewarded with honesty. But what about when you are confronted with someone with a hidden agenda?
ReplyDeleteMy first thought was "Yeah, if they already slept together. Lol." but seriously, I agree with the above comment. As long as two people are honest with their intentions I can not see why a man and a woman couldn't be friends. Infact,Im sure there are women who'd prefer it to same sex friendships.
ReplyDeleteIn life you have to take a chance on alot of things.Just have to hope that you dont wait till its to late then,and you both are on the same page.
ReplyDeleteBeing friends with the opposite is far more difficult if you've already done the deed. Unless you are going for the long haul, its difficult to make it work. Haven't you ever slept with someone at work? How ackward is that, you know?
ReplyDeleteSome people prefer the opposite as a friend,and they are some that been able to make it work. All by being honest,thats why it shouldn't be ackward if you were be honest from the begining.
ReplyDeleteMaybe work and pleasure should not mix?
ReplyDeletefor some people,but for myself i can not be friend with no woman because if that woman is beautiful and it seems like nothing's really missing if i feel her something will happen.
ReplyDeleteSo you should be friendly with woman that are not attractive???
ReplyDeleteNot necessarily because an attractive might have a lot of unattractive things that would probably not make you want to take it to that level.
ReplyDeleteIt is my preference to have male friends versus female friends. Of course I make sure that up front that the understanding is we are friends, if something seems to be brewing if I rathere be just friends with the guy then it is what it is. however, I have had one friendship with a male become a friends with benefits situation... sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt. In the end we remained friends.
ReplyDeleteSo it was just one of those "it just happened" moment?
ReplyDeleteIn the mean time don't forget to keep it real.
ReplyDeleteI think that you placing your posts comments not as new posts. You need to place your information under new post.
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